Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 19:35:07
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Just gone thru the CD`s Dvd`s play station games, videos, yes videos! Guess what.............nothing is in the right case. Yet they promised me they would put ............................i`ll stop.........mugged off again:P
Yet more to check in their bedroom, that was just the lounge. Aggggggggggggggg
Tomorrow i`ve decided to sort my pooter station out as well, as there is a pile of dvds cds and other stuff under it.....................wonder where the boys get it from ? muwhahahahahaahahaha
A thought for a missing child, let her be well and returned to parents whom may learn a very hard lesson.
And for all missing children everywhere.
We don't forget you.
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Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 20:14:27
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Yeah course we will do that.... promise....
5 seconds later and its a case of what you on about now?
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 22:35:13
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Your too cynical Bear.
Any parent mourns a loss of another child. Life goes on but its hard not to wonder what's happened.
A reason i have not spoken on this is precisely to avoid your comment above. Many have spoken and raised issues, valid ones at that. The situation remains the same though, a child has been left alone, sorry in "care of two other children" whilst the parents go for a meal,wine, "ADULT" company................!
Now I am commenting, May they rot in hell if the child dies.
As for the other siblings, they should be put into foster care for more careful and loving parents.-
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Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 23:28:05
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god i dont believe i read that......i never replied to that thread either,,,cuz all parents make mistakes.....but we dont expect our children to be abducted..its easy for some to say hang em...god i dont even no wy im typin this.....
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 23:56:02
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God bless maddie happy 4th birthday and be home soon x
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 23:57:06
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thats very true,,,,sad but true....weve all had partys where been pissed.....while kiddies in bed, yeh?.does that make us bad parents?.and we all make brekkies,,take em to fun fair,buy em xmas prezzies,and luv em to bits......but thats what parents do...aint it?
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 00:47:10
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"shall we also condemn parents who get drunk or take drugs whilst they are at home and their children safely tucked up in bed?"
Yes I think we will condemn parents that take drugs and get shit faced while they are looking after toddlers.
"cuz all parents make mistakes.....but we dont expect our children to be abducted.."
Deliberately leaving your 3yr old child home while you go out is not a mistake, it is a deliberate action by an irresponsible parent.
"weve all had partys where been pissed.....while kiddies in bed, "
Err, no we 'all' haven't Froog.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 00:58:29
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emm
wy the froog bit
ive not taken drugs
was wraith who said.
u got a problem with me
ive had partys wi kiddies tucked in bed.
thats all i said,
ive 4
so uve never had a party wi kiddies in bed...
who u trying to protect
mark,,if u want me to go , ill just go.
dont keep jumpin on me.just tell them all, and ill go.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 01:05:32
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I said Froog because I was replying to what you said, I quoted it in the line above.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 01:07:08
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Jumping on you??? What are you on about.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 01:09:22
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i said we all are parents.
weve all made mistakes.
but its funny how u always quote me.
and not others
i brought up my 1st three,after theyre mum left.
not cuz of me i mte add,,,were best m8s again..
but sick of reading on here bout the good father bit.
were all good fathers.
well most are.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 01:18:41
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oh so u and roe havnt ever been pissed at the partys uve had...aww well,the fotos u post lie then.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 08:11:48
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We have been pissed Froog, just never irresponsible enough to be pissed and in charge of a young child Froog.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 08:14:19
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froog he only said your name as the line above that was a quote from u so he was answering u. the lines above that were quotes from wraith. he isn't jumping on u at all.
And in answer to your question have we been pissed at parties the answer is I have been out of my skull but Mark hasn't, yes he has had a drink but he aint falling over drunk and the big difference is Sandie has been 13 14 and 15 not 2 or 3.
unfortunatly when u speak to Mark about responsibilities u r speaking to someone who is so selfless its unreal. in our house Sandie comes first me second Sandie 3rd me 4th etc etc until Mark finally gets a turn way way down the line.
we don't do drugs we never just have a drink in the house its always if we r having a party or people round for dinner and b4 we even start we say "right whos getting pissed and who is staying sober ish?" that ofcourse is only if Sandie is there.
everyone lives there life different but because of how we live ours i can say hand on heart i think it is just neglect and not giving a shit if u take drungs or get as pissed as a fart when u r in charge of children (young children) and to get back to what started all this off ........ yeah i do think the parents of maddie deserve to be charged with neglet or something and there other children took off them. cos what they did was down right wrong.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 11:50:13
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no one is saying that what they did wasnt wrong....all i was pointing out was that as parents,weve all made mistakes.its the vile people who steal children,who are to blame.its them we need to weed out,and erase from society..
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-13 12:28:20
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Can there never be a "healthy" debate here?
The comment I made was because the children were "left unattended!" Yes almost everyone has been drunk at a party with their children in attendance, asleep in bed. But not left ALONE.
The main reason this particular issue has raised so many heads is precisely that, they were left ALONE.
If anyone is unsure about this look the word ALONE up in the dictionary.
Now for a peculiar fact of english law, if a mother leaves two children ALONE aged 9 and 10 for 4 hours do you know what the police do!
Absolutely nothing, YES NOTHING how do I know, because it was my children left alone. I found out because as a uncaring basket i rang them to say hello one night last year as you do. I informed the police and went to their flat as well. by the time i had got there the ex had turned up and told the police she had only gone to the shop, utter bollox as i had also called her place of work (cash in hand). I of course was not believed.
Sorry to drift off there, so i know how horrifying it is to hear of children being left alone. All you whom seem to have the best intentions are desperate to condemn others who have an opinion, attack the thread not the person (hence no names mentioned).
There is NO parent who has not made a mistake at one time or another,there are a few parents who deliberately make ones which result into a cascade of incidents to result in this sorry episode.
Once again I hope the young girl is safely recovered.
Children, and promises! - Posted on 2007-05-12 19:35:07
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