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Im having a real tuff time at work just now, i am stressed out to quite a dangerous level, in fact last night when everyone had left and i was still working on various problems i lost it and wrecked the office !!!!! took me half an hour to tidy it up afterwards and was very stupid i know but aaarrrggghhhh i feel like exploding...help !!!
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phone in sick and let some other bugger have the stress!
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 13:06:53
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have u tryed some relaxation tecneques? listen to music, go running etc all can help combat stress, if these don't work, do what bear says lol
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 13:08:41
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remember - its only work not life
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 13:32:26
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Go to the doctor and ask him to sign you off sick for two weeks, you may have to pay him but it'll be worth not having the stress for two weeks.
Even if you have to back to everything you've left, you'll have a clearer head to deal with it hun.
I know this from personal experience, it really helps you focus when you go back.
Good luck x
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 17:25:26
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I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 18:03:40
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we have got castle wolfenstein enemy terriotry on the network at work, is a free game you can download. is great though you get all stressed out then at lunch you get to shoot your manager/tech director....etc...great stress buster....or listen to scott mills! allways work!
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 19:08:31
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on the nuts website there is/was a link to a game called beat your boss its brilliant and very theraputic
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 19:15:34
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hi adz sorry to hear bout the stress hun xx
i think we all get like that at work sometimes, my boss drives me so mad sometimes i wanna basically kill him , or at least string him up and watch him suffer lol...
i think the advice of a few days off is gonna work wonders, hope you feel a little more relaxed soon,
xxxxxx
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 20:26:39
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kinda know how you feel, would be nice if home was stress free, get a dog and take it for a long walk in the woods, that seems to be my escape in life lately,
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 21:20:12
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at the end of the day if the job is making you ill, is it rea;lly worth it? have a couple of weeks off to chill out and get your head straight, and during this time have a look about to see what other jobs are about.
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-22 21:42:35
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Hell I hear you hun. I'm a new teacher - lots to learn, lots to mark, lots of assignment work to complete, no time to do it! Standing up in front of all those students all those times a week. It's enough to kill ya. A good friend who started with me is on the verge of a nervous breakdown and it's heartbreaking - she's such a good teacher.
thing that keeps me going - it's just a job, nobody will die if i do something wrong or don't complete it on time.
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-23 00:57:02
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wow thanks folks , its nice to hear a few freindly words from you guys thanks.
I wish i could take a sicky or go and hide for a while but im self employed and if i dont go in to work nothin would get done.
I shouldnt be gettin so worked up about it but with so many things to fit into one day its just stupid!!! Plus cash flow is a joke and havin a few of the work force thinkin they can get away with murder cause theve been there for years, lazy bstrds !!!
I want to sell up and start somethin new but the building trade is all i know and its bullsht!!
nothin else for it ive just got to get on with it, but will try and keep my spirits up and my head down.
Thanks again and from your words of wisdom i will ride my bike this weekend, listen to some whale music, go for a walk in the woods (without a dog) play computer games get drunk and go and see the doctor, mabye in that order too.
thanks.
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-23 08:34:11
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Oh hun, hope that everything works itself out for you.
Would you go perm employed with a company? I can point you in the direction of some good recruitment agencies in the area if you like?
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-23 09:47:44
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Thanks bubbles, i would consider a change but for now i am tied down to this place but you never know whats round the next corrner.
Im sure things will get better soon, just need a wee break so ive decided to take a few freinds up on there offer to go to a remote scottish island on easter weekend for a booze fest and a wee acoustic jam in the local pub !! should be just the remedy i need.
Thanks pal xx
I hate my job - Posted on 2007-03-23 10:24:50
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following up on what bubbs says. I was self employed for a few years, the work was fine but cashflow is the stressful bit for me. I bit the bullit and got a job, was made redundant two years later got another, better job within weeks now have a wage and do a bit of freelance, best of both worlds I think.
so you might think you're in a rut but your not. go on s1jobs etc, you dont know whats out there until you look.